Real child abuse victims are not proud of being abused: Becki Percy

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Fake child abuse victims like Becki Percy use their abuse narrative as a way to get free fame, money and services. They often show no physical or psychological signs of child abuse, and appear never to be triggered by the memories they relate on screen. 

False victim of child abuse Becki Percy loves to tell the world about her fictional horror stories of being raped and abused by Satanists between the ages of 4 and 19.  Vague on details, the 23-year-old British parasite speaks into the screen on Youtube stories of being ritually sexually abused in as much gore and horror her little imagination can conjure up, as if she had been relating an interesting walk down a beach eating ice cream.

Becki Percy serves up a narrative designed to appeal to her religious and feeble-minded supporters, who probably never suffered abuse themselves, but with clever emotionally crafted words Becki spins her magic to wheel her audience in, together with donations, merchandise sales, and free accommodation.  Anyone who raises questions about her strategies and narrative are blocked, threatened and are conveniently labelled Satanic child abusers.

Stories of terrible mass rapes and torture are rolled off the slippery tongue of the parasite oblivious that if these things had happened, the experience would have left apparent scars and a shattered reproductive system.  Yet the photogenic face of Becki Percy shows no scars, and if the stories are true, she continues to enjoy orgasms in the beds of the women she sleeps with.

Despite her apparent anxiety and eating disorder issues, Becki Percy looks psychologically intact for someone who claims to suffer massive traumatic experiences.  Becki Percy wields her position as a victim of child abuse with pride, turning it into a brand, a badge and key she feels unlocks doors and entitles her to money and freebies.  Every product Becki Percy sells comes with the story of her fictional abuse, an invite to take pity on her, to buy products from the poor abused parasite.  Percy uses the abuse narrative in her job applications; attempts to invite dontions on crowd funding platforms; requests for free legal services; her application to become a US citizen; access to free meals and accommodation.  Becki uses the same fictions to speak for real victims of abuse, and point fingers at innocent people without evidence alleging child rape and murder.

It is how Becki Percy reacts to what are devastating alleged claims of child abuse that flags up that she is a fraud.  I have suffered child abuse, I have met many victims of child abuse.  I know how it feels to be abused, and the consequencies of that abuse.  It is hard for me to admit to being abused, let alone share details, or wave my experiences around as if it was something to be proud of like Becki Percy does.  Child abuse is like acid, it starts eating at you every time memories of it is triggered off, and yet Percy shows no ill effects of her alleged experiences.

Becki Percy is neither mentally or physically robust, thus any serious abuse that she alleges would have caved her in.  Percy is a fragile butterfly who unlike real victims of child abuse still has pretty wings to flutter to serve her purposes of getting what she wants. Percy has had an intense hunger for fame, playing the child abuse victim has had its costs and rewards, and Becki Percy has become good at playing this game to get the attention she craves.

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Why this blog is back in action: Becki Percy

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Real victims of child abuse won’t turn their abuse into a personal marketing brand to fame and fortune as Becki Percy has done.

A reader asked why I started writing to this blog again after I had said it was to be retired.  In answer, it is unfinished business concerning an individual called Becki Percy.  I could have started another blog to deal with the false allegation maker, but it was simpler and sensible to address the matter of Becki Percy via this blog, especially as I have written about her in the past here.

Becki Percy is a fraud and parasite who has identified the market of child sex abuse allegations as a fast track to fame and fortune that she craves.  The issue of child sex abuse is huge and highly emotional, an entire industry has emerged of those pursuing paedophiles, supporting child abuse victims and making compensation claims through the courts.  Within this industry the parasites and frauds have emerged to take advantage of what they see as an easy ride of making false allegations and the ideal that all child sex abuse victims should be believed without question.  Especially when the alleged predator is a high profile and wealthy target, the opportunity of instant fame and money is an inviting lure for some to make up stories and allege they were victims of abuse.

Becki Percy coming from a dull ordinary background in Hull UK with working class ordinary parents, an only-child who felt she was destined for more, a mentally disturbed individual who saw in child abuse a way of getting into the big time of riches and fame.  A hungry desire for attention Becki Percy firstly accused her father of child abuse, then her mother, then others of her family.  Social workers and the police did not believe her allegations but were legally forced to take Percy into care at her request.  Percy seemed to have a hostility to men, with also a hint of being sexually attracted to women.  Her modus operandi was to accuse men of sexual misconduct, groom and isolate the women into an unhealthy controlling relationship, and then use those she controlled to support and encourage her fantasy fictions.

A well meaning couple with a young baby fostered Percy for a while, but then what must be a horrifying expereince for any foster carers, Percy took a dislike to the male and made sex allegations against him.  There was a police and social worker investigation, but there was no evidence found to support the allegations made by Percy.  Returned back to a care home Percy was obsessed about child abuse, indulged in fiction writing and social media postings on that subject.

When she turned 18, Percy had evolved her fantasy into a massive cult killing and raping thousands of children in the Hull area, her ordinary family being at the heart of it.  Percy claimed that she would be sacrificed when she turned 19, and a concerned family in the USA paid for an air ticket for her to escape to the USA.  On failing to fool US immigration that she had no intention of permanently staying in the US via a tourist visa, Percy claimed political asylum claiming her “Satanic” family was going to kill her.  Offering no evidence to support her claims of a sinister Satanic cult Percy spent 14 months in detention, lost her immigration court cases, was bailed pending a final court appeal, and spent time with her new US family who wanted to adopt her.

Percy financially and psychologically abused and used her California family, put a child in danger and then abandoned them for a new Texan family.  Percy made allegations against her new “adopted” father in the Texan family, wrecked that marriage and home, and currently is living with her “adopted” Texan mother Wendy McAvene.

After nearly four years the final appeal in the Ninth district court system happens in September or October 2019 with Percy still looking for a pro-bono lawyer to take on her case, having abused the good nature of three pro-bono attorneys who had worked for her previously.  Percy facing no takers offering her free legal services has put out a begging bowl for donations to pay for an attorney.

During her four years in the USA Percy has shown little concern for the thousands of children she alleges are being murdered and raped in Hull UK, prioritising her social media postings to supporting Donald Trump, religion and promoting her candle selling business.  Percy has offered no evidence in support of her allegations, and either blocks or threatens those asking her questions.   Such is the arrogance and disconnect with reality Percy makes serious allegations against public figures such as John Podesta of the rape, torture, murder and eating of children on social media such as Twitter without a shred of evidence.

In recent months I have sat as people disclosed harsh abuses they suffered as children, the impacts clearly seen in their faces.  I have likewise suffered abuse in my own childhood, and I am currently going through a group PTSD set of sessions with people close to the edge from dark events in their own lives.  If an individual has been abused as a child, most won’t go parading around in public turning their abuse into a badge of honor backed by merchandising, begging bowls and an addiction for fame.  Its only those who have never suffered abuse that can run around proudly claiming they have been abused, and since abuse is too common and normal for their liking, expand their stories into full Satanic horror stories of orgies, murder and ritual, just to stand out from the crowd of real ordinary child abuse victims.  And it seems strange how these “victims” of Satanic horror appear to be so confident and unbroken, lacking any of those common stories of crime, drug addiction and alcohol that seem to follow ordinary victims of abuse.  I have experienced and seen the impacts of PTSD, and the stories uttered by those like Becki Percy would cause PTSD, yet there is no trace of it in them as they drown the internet in their graphic horror stories of what happened to them and others.

What I suffered is my business, not something I parade about like Becki Percy, a situation Percy is so proud of that she puts her horror abuse stories on her unsuccessful resume and application forms for jobs.  Percy currently thinks her horror abuse fictions are a magic key to unlocking doors for her to fame, money, jobs, citizenship in the USA, business marketing, free products and services;  some gullible religious fools feed that delusion.  At the same time real victims of abuse, who suffer day and night from what happened years before, sit and watch parasites like Percy feed off a system designed for real victims of abuse, and turn something dark into fame and fortune for themselves whilst undermining the integrity of real victims of abuse.  I feel unsettled in my own self with what Becki Percy is doing, and this is why this blog is active again, as I challenge and defeat one of many thousands of parasites who shit all over real victims of abuse.

 

On false allegation makers like Becki Percy

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Becki Percy is a fraud and parasite who plays the system and feeds upon the resources that had been destined for real victims of child abuse.

I have no involvement in the caring professions or a particular desire to deal with issues in others that have suffered trauma and abuse, but for whatever reason, in the last year I have become the target of individuals disclosing stuff that they would not disclose to anyone else.  Individuals who suffer PTSD, or have been abused as a child, or are close to mental burnout without invite or prompting dislose in an avalanch their stories, often in public spaces where they seem to forget themselves that others can overhear what they say.  It is a mystery why these people would be motivated to trust me with this disturbing stuff, nor do I have the power or training to wave magic wands to make things right, but it happens, and it is a mystery to me why this happens.

What I will say is there is lots of people who have suffered terrible things and experiences, things done to their person, or what they have witnessed, and these things cause PTSD or other mental health issues inside them, that there is now as many as 1 in 3 people in the UK who have mental health problems.  The system cannot handle these distressed individuals, and its easy answer is to medicate with antidepressents, which many of these individuals say does not easy their suffering, and seems to make things worse for them.  All they seem to want is someone to talk to, and I guess I became that person for some of these people, since we now live in a lonely society where intimate connections is less common than it was in previous generations.

Along with the rising challenge of child abuse and mental illness is the vast industry of frauds and parasites who prey on the vulnerable and upon the systems that support the abused for reasons of fame, financial gain or feelings of power.  Two healthy children at the centre of Hampstead Satanic Hoax were predated upon by frauds and parasites who invented stories and forced those children via torture, violence and fear to endure years of traumatic persecution, which has seen child abusers such as Sabine McNeill and Rupert Wilson Quaintance IV jailed.  The end result is that those two healthy children have suffered systematic destruction of their mental health by those like Sabine McNeill with a high chance of PTSD later in life.

Amongst these same parasites are those who seek personal gain in making up fictions that they are victims of abuse, waging relentless campaigns of harrassment through false allegation making against innocent victims.  Such an individual is Becki Percy who panders to the gullible fictions that her own family are at the heart of a Satanic cult in Hull UK raping and murdering their way through thousands of children in that city.  Perhaps Percy was a victim of abuse, but then some ordinary abuse incident seemed too normal, and she jazzed it up into a fullscale murdering raping orgy involving lots of named abusers and unnamed victims, with poor vulnerable Becky at the heart of it.  And even though the story was ideal for a hollywood movie, such as being pursued naked through the woods by hooded sexually aroused cultists at night and being raped everytime she tripped, then coming upon trees adorned like christmas trees with dead hanging children. The stories by Becki Percy lacked much in the way of substantial detail and facts.  When Becki Percy was pressed on details it was the case she blocked you and tried to threaten you with things like doxing.

Like all parasites and frauds, Becki Percy played the system claiming political asylum in the USA claiming her family, people not particulary wealthy or powerful, was going to murder her, supported by a shadowy powerful cult.  A two-faced liar Percy entered the USA on a tourist visa with the intention of staying permanently, and had intended to claim political asylum after her VISA ran out, however, US immigration guessed she was an illegal and she ended in detention 14 months.  Percy then tricked well meaning US Christians to pay her legal fees and offer free legal representation as she delayed her deportation through the legal process whilst condemning other illegal immigrants and supporting their abusive treatment by the US government.

Despite claiming thousands of children were being raped and murdered daily in Hull UK, there was not much in the way of action by Becki Percy to do anything about it, other than Twitter posts supporting Donald Trump, selling candles and asking for donations.  It was bizarre to read posts about her pet dog, learning to drive and her latest merchandising product, with little effort made t addressthe  alleged suffering children in Hull, as if those dying abused children was nothing but an afterthought.

Having met many individuals suffering PTSD, and having also suffered this condition, I did not see these symptoms in Becki Percy on her videos. When she was discussing her stories of abuse, it seemed like Percy was relating something that had happened at the seaside or in a movie she had watched.  Even if she had become depersonalised, people with PTSD display body language in certain ways that I would pick up.

A medical examination would confirm the allegations of Becki Percy.  Percy claimed extensive torture which resulted in many scars, including to her face, yet none was evident in photos and video she posted to the internet.  A medical examination would confirm beyond reasonable doubt her claims of scars and torture.  Percy claimed she had suffered forced abortions from early age, a situation that would have screwed up her uterus, a medical exam would confirm this.  Likewise, Percy claimed being raped multiple times over many years, even by many people on the same day, this would also be confirmed in a medical examination.  I suspect that Becki Percy is still a virgin, and her hymen is intact.

Becki Percy is no different from a sexual groomer of children where she identifies potential victims and then gradually isolates them from their support, making them emotionally dependent upon herself as she uses and abuses them, which is the sad situation that now exists with Wendy McAvene who provides Percy with a home whilst she plays the US legal system to stay in the USA as long as she can.  Percy is an insidious if unsophisticated parasite who harms every family which allows her into their lives, and at the same time undermines the cases of real victims of abuse as she plays the system and hijacks support for the abused for her own personal gain. This is why I actively campaign against Becki Percy.

The END

I have made two attempts at putting into words my feelings and situation in my life at this moment in this blog, and I trashed them both.

All I can say is that things from when I was aged six have emerged, are causing me serious problems, and it has become a life-death situation.

All of my resources I have redirected to surviving and overcoming the challenges that I now face.  What I can say is that I can no longer carry on any struggles of playing hero for others and setting the world to rights.  I am done with that.  Those struggles include fighting Satan Hunters such as those in Hampstead and Becki Percy cases.

I am a different person from what I was in June 2018, and I feel and think different.  The feelings that I have suffered have become the new normal, and it impacts my deeds and choices I am making.  My life is having to evolve to my new reality, and playing hero is not part of that new reality.

I am proud to be associated with the Left Hand Path, and to that outlook known as Satanism.  Regardless of my positive feelings for Satanic Temple, I have always said I was an independent Satanist, and it is to this path I shall continue to follow, however, it does not involve anyone else, it is something private and personal to me, so people in real life will not know I am a Satanist, since I will never tell them.  I have been able to share my ideas and feelings on Satanism in this blog and other mediums because it has limited impact on my personal life, but I need to give my full focus to my personal real world life, so this internet activity must now come to an end.

I would have liked to say this post will be about a temporary break from blogging, but I think the reality is that this blog and my internet activity as a Satanist has come to an end, such is my situation that I now experience.

The ticking time bomb that is associated with my six-year-old former self, I kind of knew it would eventually detonate, but the destruction and ripples was more than I had expected.  So, here we are, what can I say.

Anyway, it has been an honor to have worked with so many of you my readers over the years, and now it is time to say farewell.  I wish you all the best in life.

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On the Highly Sensitive Person

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Actions for a HSP such as me, such as walking in nature, is vital to calm down an over-sensitive nervous system.

I have recently become aware of a type of personality that makes up about 20% of the human population called Highly Sensitive People (HSP) the qualities that appear to describe me.  This is no disorder or disability, but is a healthy genetic natural personality which comes with its own challenges and abilities. The HSP has an over-sensitive nervous system that reacts at a higher sensitivity and intensity than most people.  The HSP is on a type of sensitivity spectrum, and there are those at the top 1% who have serious sensory problems, such as me.

 

I shall describe five traits of a HSP person:

Sensory issues

The senses of the body such as taste, hearing and balance.  Some of the issues I have include:

  1. a dislike of loud noise or high-pitched sounds.
  2. inability to wear jewellery; have tight wet clothes; wear sun cream .
  3. an adverse reaction to being uncomfortable and pain.
  4. dislike of swimming; extreme temperatures; swinging/roundabouts.
  5. being in crowds, and fast-moving situations.
  6. dislike of being touched roughly and unexpectedly.
  7. inability to handle spicy foods, and lots of bad reactions to food.

Emotional issues

I feel emotions with intensity which impair my choices and actions.  If I am aware of the suffering of children or an animal, this triggers immediate and intense set of emotions that make me feel distressed and ill.  I try to avoid horror movies, and anything that depicts suffering of animal or person, because of how badly I react to it, and it can cause me to self-harm or do something stupid.  I feel the suffering of others in my own body.

Adverse reactions to negative events

Rejection, confrontation, criticism, house-moves, exams and deaths are some of the events of life that has a massive impact upon HSP’s like me.  Whilst most people get over a criticism, I will ruminate and it will take ages to get over it.  Emotional melt-downs and angry reactions is common and normal for a HSP to even minor set-backs. The chances of an emotional melt-down is much higher: if I am ill; lack of sleep; hungry; uncomfortable, such as cold and wet; under stress such as deadlines and too many demands at the same time; over-stimulating environment.

Adverse reactions to stimulants

Small doses of caffeine, alcohol or a drug can cause an immediate and overwhelming reaction.  I keep away from alcohol and all drugs such as cannabis because I know that my already over-sensitive nervous system would be pushed over the edge with such stimulants that could put me and others at risk.

Being overwhelmed

Being overwhelmed is a common experience with a HSP like me, with constant bombardment of emotional and sensory activity in my body via my nervous system.  Avoiding situations such as being in a crowded and noisy space, having an opportunity to be alone, having downtime, and being in nature is vital, otherwise I will have an emotional meltdown, start self-harming or risk mental illness.

It is how it is

There is no point telling me to stop being sensitive, pull myself together, be a man, be in control.  To be able to meet the expectations of others means to suppress the experience of sensory and emotional activity in the body, which won’t vanish, it will manifest as self-harm, sickness and bad choices/actions that hurt self and others.  For the HSP it is about accepting these qualities as natural, and working with these traits in a positive way.  Thus it means avoiding certain situations, foods and stimulants.  It means providing opportunities to be alone, to have downtime, to use calming positive music and surroundings such as nature to calm the nervous system down.  It may seem weak, vulnerable and hard to accept being a HSP person, and working with HSP qualities, but, to do so will mean a happy, positive and fulfilling life to one of misery and suffering.

Autism and ADD/ADHD

The HSP qualities are common to those with autism and ADD/ADHD conditions, there is also a chance that a HSP individual could be wrong misdiagnosed and then medicated for a condition they never had, which will make matters worse for them.

A refocus from confrontation to creativity

In recent months my ability to control my HSP-like qualities has been lost, and thus I have had to seriously rethink my life choices and situation.  One issue concerns my campaigning against the Satan Hunters such as Sabine McNeill or Becki Percy, whose actions and the results of those actions is making me so distressed that I feel it would be better I stop campaigning against them.

It is my thinking that if I stopped fighting predators like Becki Percy, but instead refocus upon creating something such as an AI that would curb these monsters, then I would be indulging in something positive, creative and where I have a passion, without having to deal with so many negative feelings in my body.  It’s just that I am unable to cope with the toxic feelings, so this refocusing of my attention to something creative rather than confrontational is best for everyone, but also for my own mental health.

On real world, internet and artificial intelligence

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The disconnection between real world and virtual world in technology hurts both people and this planet.  The ideal is to have both worlds aligned so they are in harmony. 

In South Korea a couple who spent all their time raising a virtual child allowed their real child to starve to death. Despite all the advantages that the internet and artificial intelligence brings, there is a huge disconnection between real world and the virtual world, where an individual must choose between living in one or the other.

The virtual world traps people in fantasy and delusion.

It is easy to become trapped in the artificial bubble of cyberspace neglecting real friends and even the basics of sleeping and eating.  The internet offers experiences that have no relationship to the real world, which makes people act and think in ways that they would not do if they were grounded in the real world.  In studying those who are caught grooming children for sex on the internet, which has become a national sport for hundreds of amateur hunters in the UK to encourage and then get predators arrested by the police for grooming children, it never ceases to amaze me at the stupidity, lack of empathy and wishful thinking on the part of predators who fall for what are crude clumsy online traps.  It is beyond reason why adults turn up where children meet on the internet, then share with them pictures of their penis, or their fetishes such as foot sucking, or sexual concepts that even I was ignorant of.  It is disturbing to watch these people when caught by the hunters become broken as they realise their jobs, friends, family, life, reputation and liberty is wiped out as the handcuffs go on, for their inability to distinguish real world from that of the fantasies of online life.

The disconnect between real world and machines

There is also a disconnection with the real world when it comes to new technologies such as artificial intelligence and drones.  There is a growing fashion to deploy drones and robots to deliver items such as food to the door.  The problem with these delivery machines is the numbers of them that will be deployed so that humans have to cope with hazards of thousands of machines running around in the air and on the paths.  Likewise, when self-driving vehicles come onto the road in numbers, if they have to decide who dies in a collision, will it be me over another person because they happen to have a better credit score?

So-called AI based on big data and neural networks base their decision-making on data patterns that have no connection to reality, so if it happens that an individual falls outside the normal pattern due to their circumstances, then they will be penalised for being different to the norm.  Such AI are now making decisions on credit loan applications, if children should be taken into care, what medication to give, the type and length of criminal penalties such as jail time.  In a growing number of larger corporations it is AI who now run recruiting and hiring processes.  With budgets growing less, so public and private entities are using AI to run their processes to cut costs, based on flawed big data patterns.

The disconnect between human and machine can create a backlash

It only takes one child to be killed in collision with an Amazon delivery drone for a huge public backlash against AI, robots and drones.  As a positive supporter of AI, my concern is on the matter of the disconnection between the real world and the virtual.  How do we over come this?

The real and virtual world can be in harmony

I argue the real world and the virtual can be in harmony. The individual navigates the real world because the image imprinted in the brain is closely related to what exists in the environment, a difference between life and death when trying to cross a busy road for instance.   The brain has a reality checking system that can in real-time update the images in the brain so that an individual does not fall under a bus that appeared from around the corner.

Complexity theory without big data for a new type of AI

My argument is that the internet and processes can be run by AI without the need for big data.  All these AI require is a set of scripts, the ability to sense incoming information in real-time, be capable of reality testing, immediate updating of patterns and acting upon the reality of the moment without bias.  In nature, the oak tree has scripts that trigger on simple feedback mechanisms such as when to grow new leaves in the spring, when to produce acorns and when to shed leaves in the autumn, which gives them a sense of intelligence.  The oak tree does not have a sense of reality, nor care, it has instead a set of purposes, sensors and scripts that trigger on feedback loops from what is going on in the environment.    These systems in the oak tree are so in harmony with the real world that rarely is there a conflict between oak tree and its environment, if there was, the oak tree suffers and can die.

My version of an AI has no need for vast amounts of memory or big data, but does require lots of processing power.  For the processing, this requires thousands of processors rather than one.  I break down the system by function, I allocate the number of processors to meet the function.  Every processor share the same scripts, but they auto-select which script comes into action depending upon their function and feedback loops between what is going on between them and their environment.  The feedback loops are powered by sensors acting in real-time.  This type of design means that an AI and an internet site run by them could never be out of step with the real world, unless there was a serious malfunction in the scripts and sensors.  There is no chance that a system could malfunction because some processors fail, since they all share the same scripts, they rewire and replace malfunctioning parts with alternatives.  This is how a bee hive works.  Most bees, as could most AI processing units, can change tasks and function depending upon the needs of the hive or system.

The type of design I am working on is based on complexity theory, where intelligence, aliveness and consciousness is an emergent layer of what is going on in the parts.  What is interesting and unpredictable is if one AI system starts communicating with others and self-organises to become a team so that a new super-entity emerges with another emergent layer.  As an example, oak trees do not act alone in nature, they are networked as teams, and work together via a fungal and chemical communication system between each other via their roots and leaves.  A mother tree can send nutrients through their root-fungal network to a daughter tree, they can tell each other if they are under attack and act as a team to deal with the threat.

In conclusion, the ideal is that real world and that of the virtual upon which the internet, AI and robots are a part of, is in real-time harmony so there is no conflict between them, where the real world takes the lead in defining how the technology is manifested.  This type of system becomes organic, alive, intelligent and conscious.

On an alternative to marriage and divorce

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Nature loves diversity, it is always throwing up unique and exciting new patterns.  A healthy society is built upon this concept of nature, and I have no problem with alternative patterns in society as longs as people are happy and treat each other well.

As a child I had to experience two collapsed marriages of my parents, the impact was hard on me, and I am hostile to the concept of marriage.  The recent BBC television series by Louis Theroux called Alternative States dealt with the theme of relationships that involved more than two partners, called polyamory in episode one called Love Without Limits.

Having got over the initial weirdness of polyamory, I quickly realised that many people would benefit from this sort of relationship, having seen how this impacted the participants in the television episode.  Theroux interviewed two families who were involved in a polyamory relationship, the traditional marriages of both families was in trouble, where the partners had become unhappy, with the alternative being divorce.  One of the partners from each of the two families had entered into a relationship with the consent of their partners, so that each had a sexual relationship with two people, their own partner and the partner of another person.  Both families had children, and the children appeared happy about this sort of relationship, since they had both their parents still together, plus the benefit of other adults in their life.  The individuals who had to experience the sharing of their partner with another person was not enthusiastic about the situation but recognised the benefit to their relationship from a happier partner, which then boosted the security and happiness of their marriage.

Theroux interviewed two other females, each who had two men sharing their relationship, one female expecting a baby.  In each case everyone seemed happy in their relationship.  Clearly, here was an alternative to the traditional two-person relationships, and all the children in the situations benefited and appeared happy.

Another segment in the programme dealt with people who had a party where they were naked apart from covering up their sex organs, and fed each other food whilst blindfolded, whilst touching them except their private parts in different parts and ways.  I understood the thinking of why people wanted to have these type of experiences in a society where people no longer touch, this encouraging the production of hormones oxytocin and dopamine, however, I saw it as another new age gimmick for experience-junkies as an alternative to real relationships.

It is interesting to see how society is evolving to seeking alternative patterns to traditional roles such as relationships.  I am not bothered by whatever alternative emerges in society to traditional patterns as longs as people are happy and treat each other well.